Beginner's luck

What's that? when you try something for the first time. You do it without any fail. People will tell you when you had it ;)
It is generally associated with the task which is complicated.
So how this may happen. My hypothesis is that when you attempt the first time any complicated task, you are ready for any failure and so you are at peace. No pressure! That will give you the flawless brain power which one does not have especially once we try it after training. After trying a few times, you are expected to do it without fail. That makes you worried somewhere leading to fails. Having said so, it's not universal law (for that matter just a hypothesis by me). Although, this may be the case for some  :) 

A dreamer, an achiever or a criminal??

Somesh is an accountant in a private firm. He is hard working but earns little money. Just enough for a lifestyle of a lower medium class. He had this desire to be rich someday in his life. He witnessed around him that the rich are respected and admired. He wished that for himself. 
He started stealing money from his boss's account smartly. He covered his steals on paper. He is too smart to be caught. I must mention his boss keeps the black money so the boss is not a 'saint'.
Somesh is very rich. It's been a while. He bought properties. He spends money on his family and extended family. He is known as a kind rich fellow with gentle behavior. With his open secret, society still loves and respects him. 
Tell me guys- Should Somesh feel proud of his achievements? Should people who are aware of his acts, should still respect him? Is it okay to be okay for him? or let the conscious make you feel, he is just an ordinary small thief with a white collar...   

parenting ...child abusing

okay this might be weird one

As a child, one can be beaten up badly by parents...for some real good reasons like if one won't study or eat what parents think is healthy.
ya they chose good reasons :D
n no offense I love mine..they mean so much to me...
I have been beaten up...being eldest, seen a lot of it...I mean they wanted us to become something great ...they wanted us something else, we became something else but nonetheless, we turned out to be okay :) 
We made them feel proud some occasions and...that's it..I think there shouldn't be many complains about that.
but I know this, hitting a child is very common
I can not imagine kicking my kids with the foot or hitting with belt or ladle etc
or may be one has to be a parent to know their aggression towards a small form of self-invented human being... I wonder
I wonder why to beat a kid so much that the kid goes hysterical ...begs for mercy and still be beaten up for God knows how long
I felt the duration to be beaten up is so impossible to calculate...I could calculate intensity but duration is beyond calculation 
It is not a complain, I know for my parents I am everything and they love me so much that their sacrifice is endless...I  cannot tolerate if they be looked down upon ...but curious me...I just wonder...why to beat a kid?
Any parent ...who can tell a parents' side? 

oh ya I forgot about this blogging for four years..n at last its you'blogger again

Hello all,

Don't we all do this, forgeting
but no problem forgeting because it doesnt mean we forget ourself...our characterstics remains the same
e.g.
I was thinking may be I should blog...
hmm...not a bad idea since I have got some time in hand
I read about blog platforms...research about famous bloggers...n then selected 'blogger' as my place ...
n then when I am trying to use it ....it took me some time to realise that in 2014 ...I did the same whole exercise and ended up posting couple of blogs
isnt it amazing that after four years I lost all memories of my blog and when I want to start I ended up chosing the same 'www.blogger.com'
wow...human you amaze me!
n u lily-  u r a fool :P

Let's talk

Let's try blogging!

I have no idea about blogging except its a place where one writes and other react! I need to find how it goes ...
I am going to write about random topics...just anything.
With just one rule ...please don't be English nazi here as that agenda won't interest me :P

Cheers!

Being idealistic_a story but could have been a truth

I am going to make an imaginary event where a better future of a girl has been killed by an IDEALIST but when I said 'better'...It's my view...may not be for the rest.

There is a kind lady in a one of India's best town. She is not carrying some crores in her bank account and some crores flooding constantly, she belongs to a middle-class Indian family. I assume she is nearly 50 -55 years old. None of her kids are staying with her. She wishes to get a girl from her village. The girl belongs to a very very poor family. They don't get good food. They cant send kids to school. Kids are working hard in Jungles etc to get things just enough to eat or cook. They were asking if someone could just take their one of the kid and give them money would help the rest of the family. Am I socking you guys? This could be true but I am not going to discuss here this all, it is already a very well discussed and being discussed topic in a countless number of forums. So lets check out WHY she wants to bring the girl.

She wants help! She is losing physical strength. The most obvious reason why she is not asking her own kids to help her is that --- she is a mother. She might be aware that seeking help from kids who are sincerely busy in building their life far away from home, would be a mere chaos and extremely selfish.

Lets see whats her PLAN is. She wants the young girl to join the school but help her to accomplish house hold work when she is not in school (let me put my view here, I did house hold work along with studying whenever and wherever possible in my own home with my mom so in my eyes that girl would be much different than me). Since they would be total 3 people (Mother, Father and the Girl) the lady must be assuming the girl will get time to study too at home. The girl will get rest necessary stuff for civilized life. Plus, She wants to give some money to the girl or if parents wants then to the parents to have as a future saving along (and I belonged to a family where we got very little and rare pocket money so I liked this idea too). Then this daring lady out of kindness, wants to take the charge of getting her married to a good family. My God! I must say that's too courageous to me. I will be scared in picking up partners in case of my kids arranged marriage as you never know when the kid comes and complains about the other family & your decision.

I see here is that, obviously the lady is making the girl to leave her family which any ways might end up sending her somewhere for money. The lady is going to make her keep her home functional like any ones parents would wish. I see the girl was going to get a BETTER future than what now she is upto.

Here comes the IDEALIST. He is the son of the lady. He is studying some where but not from home.He came for holidays. Mom tells this all. He says since the mother is getting the girl for her own purpose which is very selfish he doesn't want it to happen or indeed if she wants she should get her here but should never let her work and make her get a job. Another choice he gave was that you do what you want but MOM U WOULD BE SELFISH.  He himself didn't do any thing except sleeping, eating after saying all this. And the lady dropped the plan.

Now I want to finish the story writing.

I am just sad for such girls. We read news from poor Indian villages. I pray to God to change situation for such girl and the family. Why do I pray? As I am 28 years old. I know I do not have money to help such a single family even. They must be existing but I don't know their address..Companies take us, give us money, give us work experience but make us work like hell! And we do it...then we don't blame companies and boycott them because indeed it is a mutual benefit ...we work and we get some good thing out of it. The son could not take the whole thing as even a job. A young girl will have to do job?? yes...that would be better than those girl's situation who had to be trapped in trafficking etc.

This whole story is a FAKE. But I am sure this could be one unfortunate situation in real life. This story is just to show that very naively, unknowingly.. it is possible that an idealistic mindset can crush some innocent person's future. So again I pray ...May God give the son some farsightedness and about India ...man!  that's too big for my 1st blog...may be after my 500 blogs :)