Sunday, 14 October 2018

Beginner's luck

What's that? when you try something for the first time. You do it without any fail. People will tell you when you had it ;)
It is generally associated with the task which is complicated.
So how this may happen. My hypothesis is that when you attempt the first time any complicated task, you are ready for any failure and so you are at peace. No pressure! That will give you the flawless brain power which one does not have especially once we try it after training. After trying a few times, you are expected to do it without fail. That makes you worried somewhere leading to fails. Having said so, it's not universal law (for that matter just a hypothesis by me). Although, this may be the case for some  :) 

A dreamer, an achiever or a criminal??

Somesh is an accountant in a private firm. He is hard working but earns little money. Just enough for a lifestyle of a lower medium class. He had this desire to be rich someday in his life. He witnessed around him that the rich are respected and admired. He wished that for himself. 
He started stealing money from his boss's account smartly. He covered his steals on paper. He is too smart to be caught. I must mention his boss keeps the black money so the boss is not a 'saint'.
Somesh is very rich. It's been a while. He bought properties. He spends money on his family and extended family. He is known as a kind rich fellow with gentle behavior. With his open secret, society still loves and respects him. 
Tell me guys- Should Somesh feel proud of his achievements? Should people who are aware of his acts, should still respect him? Is it okay to be okay for him? or let the conscious make you feel, he is just an ordinary small thief with a white collar...   

Wednesday, 21 February 2018

parenting ...child abusing

okay this might be weird one

As a child, one can be beaten up badly by parents...for some real good reasons like if one won't study or eat what parents think is healthy.
ya they chose good reasons :D
n no offense I love mine..they mean so much to me...
I have been beaten up...being eldest, seen a lot of it...I mean they wanted us to become something great ...they wanted us something else, we became something else but nonetheless, we turned out to be okay :) 
We made them feel proud some occasions and...that's it..I think there shouldn't be many complains about that.
but I know this, hitting a child is very common
I can not imagine kicking my kids with the foot or hitting with belt or ladle etc
or may be one has to be a parent to know their aggression towards a small form of self-invented human being... I wonder
I wonder why to beat a kid so much that the kid goes hysterical ...begs for mercy and still be beaten up for God knows how long
I felt the duration to be beaten up is so impossible to calculate...I could calculate intensity but duration is beyond calculation 
It is not a complain, I know for my parents I am everything and they love me so much that their sacrifice is endless...I  cannot tolerate if they be looked down upon ...but curious me...I just wonder...why to beat a kid?
Any parent ...who can tell a parents' side? 

oh ya I forgot about this blogging for four years..n at last its you'blogger again

Hello all,

Don't we all do this, forgeting
but no problem forgeting because it doesnt mean we forget ourself...our characterstics remains the same
e.g.
I was thinking may be I should blog...
hmm...not a bad idea since I have got some time in hand
I read about blog platforms...research about famous bloggers...n then selected 'blogger' as my place ...
n then when I am trying to use it ....it took me some time to realise that in 2014 ...I did the same whole exercise and ended up posting couple of blogs
isnt it amazing that after four years I lost all memories of my blog and when I want to start I ended up chosing the same 'www.blogger.com'
wow...human you amaze me!
n u lily-  u r a fool :P