I am going to make an imaginary event where a better future of a girl has been killed by an IDEALIST but when I said 'better'...It's my view...may not be for the rest.
There is a kind lady in a one of India's best town. She is not carrying some crores in her bank account and some crores flooding constantly, she belongs to a middle-class Indian family. I assume she is nearly 50 -55 years old. None of her kids are staying with her. She wishes to get a girl from her village. The girl belongs to a very very poor family. They don't get good food. They cant send kids to school. Kids are working hard in Jungles etc to get things just enough to eat or cook. They were asking if someone could just take their one of the kid and give them money would help the rest of the family. Am I socking you guys? This could be true but I am not going to discuss here this all, it is already a very well discussed and being discussed topic in a countless number of forums. So lets check out WHY she wants to bring the girl.
She wants help! She is losing physical strength. The most obvious reason why she is not asking her own kids to help her is that --- she is a mother. She might be aware that seeking help from kids who are sincerely busy in building their life far away from home, would be a mere chaos and extremely selfish.
Lets see whats her PLAN is. She wants the young girl to join the school but help her to accomplish house hold work when she is not in school (let me put my view here, I did house hold work along with studying whenever and wherever possible in my own home with my mom so in my eyes that girl would be much different than me). Since they would be total 3 people (Mother, Father and the Girl) the lady must be assuming the girl will get time to study too at home. The girl will get rest necessary stuff for civilized life. Plus, She wants to give some money to the girl or if parents wants then to the parents to have as a future saving along (and I belonged to a family where we got very little and rare pocket money so I liked this idea too). Then this daring lady out of kindness, wants to take the charge of getting her married to a good family. My God! I must say that's too courageous to me. I will be scared in picking up partners in case of my kids arranged marriage as you never know when the kid comes and complains about the other family & your decision.
I see here is that, obviously the lady is making the girl to leave her family which any ways might end up sending her somewhere for money. The lady is going to make her keep her home functional like any ones parents would wish. I see the girl was going to get a BETTER future than what now she is upto.
Here comes the IDEALIST. He is the son of the lady. He is studying some where but not from home.He came for holidays. Mom tells this all. He says since the mother is getting the girl for her own purpose which is very selfish he doesn't want it to happen or indeed if she wants she should get her here but should never let her work and make her get a job. Another choice he gave was that you do what you want but MOM U WOULD BE SELFISH. He himself didn't do any thing except sleeping, eating after saying all this. And the lady dropped the plan.
Now I want to finish the story writing.
I am just sad for such girls. We read news from poor Indian villages. I pray to God to change situation for such girl and the family. Why do I pray? As I am 28 years old. I know I do not have money to help such a single family even. They must be existing but I don't know their address..Companies take us, give us money, give us work experience but make us work like hell! And we do it...then we don't blame companies and boycott them because indeed it is a mutual benefit ...we work and we get some good thing out of it. The son could not take the whole thing as even a job. A young girl will have to do job?? yes...that would be better than those girl's situation who had to be trapped in trafficking etc.
This whole story is a FAKE. But I am sure this could be one unfortunate situation in real life. This story is just to show that very naively, unknowingly.. it is possible that an idealistic mindset can crush some innocent person's future. So again I pray ...May God give the son some farsightedness and about India ...man! that's too big for my 1st blog...may be after my 500 blogs :)
